Prepping for the Perfect Boudoir Shoot in New York, NY

If you're ready to capture your sensuality and celebrate your unique beauty, then you're in for an extraordinary adventure. In this article, I'll guide you through the essential steps to prepare for a gorgeous boudoir shoot in New York, NY. From choosing the right photographer to enhancing your confidence, we'll cover it all. So, let's dive into this exciting journey of self-discovery and empowerment!

Find the Ideal Photographer

When searching for your ideal boudoir photographer, it's crucial to find someone who understands your vision, makes you feel comfortable, and can bring out the best in you. As a specialist in boudoir photography, I've had the privilege of empowering countless women like yourself through the art of capturing their essence.

At Brooklyn Boudoir, I take pride in creating a safe and inclusive space where you can be your authentic self. I believe that every woman deserves to feel confident, empowered, and celebrated. My style is a perfect blend of glamorous, romantic, and playful, ensuring that your images reflect your individual personality and desired aesthetic.

To get a glimpse of my work, feel free to browse through my portfolio on my website. You'll find a collection of captivating images that showcase the beauty, strength, and sensuality of the women I've had the pleasure of photographing. I encourage you to reach out and schedule a consultation, either in person or over a video call, where we can discuss your expectations, desires, and any questions you may have.

Plan Your Wardrobe and Accessories

To begin the process, take a moment to envision the different styles you want to portray during your boudoir shoot. Do you see yourself as a glamorous seductress, exuding confidence and allure? Or perhaps you're drawn to a softer, more romantic aesthetic that highlights your gentle and sensual side. Maybe you want to explore a playful and flirty persona, unleashing your inner vixen. Whatever styles you're drawn to, allow yourself the freedom to explore and express your multifaceted self.

Once you've identified the styles that speak to you, it's time to start curating your wardrobe. Begin by selecting lingerie pieces that accentuate your best features and flatter your body type. Choose cuts, colors, and fabrics that make you feel irresistible. Whether you prefer delicate lace, daring cut-outs, or classic satin, opt for pieces that make you feel comfortable.

Prepare Your Body and Mind

Preparing for a boudoir shoot involves both physical and mental aspects. Focus on self-care in the weeks leading up to the shoot. Prioritize regular exercise, hydrate well, and eat nourishing foods to help you feel your best. Pamper yourself with spa treatments, indulge in relaxing baths, and moisturize your skin for a radiant glow. Additionally, practice positive affirmations and visualization exercises to boost your self-confidence and embrace your unique beauty.

Professional Hair and Makeup

You're in for an extraordinary treat—flawless hair and makeup services are included at Brooklyn Boudoir! As a seasoned professional photographer, I work hand in hand with talented hair and makeup artists who possess a knack for crafting enchanting and alluring looks. Whether you desire a sultry smoky eye, cascading waves that exude sensuality, or a classic red lip for timeless elegance, my exceptional team and I are dedicated to bringing your vision to life. We understand that your boudoir shoot is a chance for you to express your specialness, and our goal is to make you feel like the most captivating version of yourself. 

Poses and Expressions

Don't let shyness hold you back during your boudoir shoot. It's a time to accept your sensuality, explore your inner confidence, and unleash your uninhibited self. Your photographer understands this journey and will encourage you to experiment with different poses and expressions, pushing boundaries and unlocking your hidden allure. Trust in their vision and let their expertise guide you toward creating truly mesmerizing photographs.

As the camera starts clicking, remember to relax and have fun. Let yourself shine through, allowing your inner confidence to radiate with every click of the shutter. Your photographer is there not only to capture your physical beauty but also to make you feel comfortable and at ease throughout the entire process. They understand the vulnerability and excitement that comes with a boudoir shoot, and they will create a safe and empowering environment where you can freely express yourself.

Embrace Your Authentic Self

When you step into your boudoir shoot, let go of any lingering self-doubt or insecurities. A positive and empowering mindset allows me to fully capture your sensuality and confidence. Remember that sensuality is not confined to one particular body type or appearance—it transcends boundaries and exists in every shape, size, and form.

In this intimate setting, it's time to own your sensuality, embracing every curve, every freckle, and every unique feature that makes you beautifully imperfect. Celebrate your body as a canvas that tells a story of resilience, strength, and self-love. Release any societal pressures or judgments that may have held you back, and step into your shoot with a renewed sense of self-assurance.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable, explore the depths of your sensuality, and reveal your true essence. Trust in your photographer and the safe space they have created for you. Let their lens capture the radiance that exudes from your confident spirit.

Preparing for a boudoir shoot in New York, NY is an exciting journey of self-discovery and empowerment. By following these essential steps, you'll be well on your way to an unforgettable experience that will leave you feeling confident and radiant. Remember to find the perfect photographer, plan your wardrobe and accessories, prepare your body and mind, explore poses and expressions, and, most importantly, be yourself. So, don't wait any longer—book your boudoir shoot and embark on this extraordinary adventure of self-love and empowerment!

Wardrobe Ideas for your Boudoir Shoot: The White Shirt

Boudoir outfit inspiration

Your upcoming photoshoot is a big deal, so naturally the outfits you choose are important to plan carefully. After you book with me, I will send you a very comprehensive prep guide to help plan your looks. But in the meantime, I am starting this series of ideas for you to wearing during your boudoir session. Starting with …

The White Button Down Shirt

Ahh, the white shirt. Classic, classy, sexy, and already in your closet! There are so many ways to style a white shirt, and it’s always in style. Plus it looks good on EVERYONE, so naturally it’s one of my favorite pieces to photograph.

What style of white shirt should you choose?

I always recommend you choose a white button down without patterns, logos or details that could date the photo or be distracting. I personally love a shirt that it’s a little large (not too huge on you) and more summer weight - in other words, not too thick. A little sheerness is oh so sexy and a lighter material will move well when you do. I have a version of this kind of shirt in the studio if you don’t have one that you love.

Should I wear by partner’s shirt?

It’s always so fun to sneak your partner’s shirt out of the closet - so many of my clients do this and it always gives their partner a fun surprise. I would just call out that you don’t want the shirt to be TOO big on you-we still want to see you underneath it!

How should you wear a white shirt in your boudoir photoshoot?

There are SO MANY ways to wear the classic white shirt:

• Wear it over lingerie, choosing how many buttons are closed to tailor the level of “edge” to your comfort zone.

• Wear it completely undone, draped off the shoulder. My clients always love a “taking the shirt off” pose. Bonus if the shirt is a little sheer so we can get a peek of your silhouette underneath.

• Wear it totally buttoned up with no pants

• Wear it frumpy and wrinkled for a “just woke up like this” flavor

• Hike it up to catch a glimpse of booty.

• Styled with “his” accessories for a masculine-sexy feel

• Tied up to show a little extra abs and give a ore fashion-forward feel.

Remember, you can be as revealing as you want to be during your boudoir shoot - from totally NSFW to completely covered up - and a crisp white button down gives you the flexibility to do just that. It also gives us tons of options for posing, gives you something productive to do with your hands, and is a classy, classy look that will never go out of style.

Need more Boudoir wardrobe inspiration? Keep checking out my blog posts for more!

xoxo,

Stephanie

Stress-Free Boudoir Wardrobe | Brooklyn Photo Studio | What to Wear to Your Boudoir Shoot

One of the most common questions i get from clients is, “what should I wear to my boudoir shoot?” It makes perfect sense - you most likely have never been photographed professionally before, must less in a state of semi-undress and you want to look your best. Ladies, I got you. Once you have booked your Brooklyn Boudoir Experience, I will send you a very informative guide that goes over what works well for different body types and what looks best on camera - this covers different styles of lingerie, what colors look best, and what textures to avoid, and I am always available to consult with you on wardrobe ideas. Many women feel they need to go out and shop for new sexy lingerie. If this is something you WANT to do, something that will make your photoshoot feel extra special (or simply give you an excuse to hit up Agent Provocateur), get it girl! But if it’s something you are stressing about - PLEASE DON’T! I am sure that there are pieces in your closet right now that you may not even be considering that work beautifully for any boudoir shoot. Check out these ideas for stress-free boudoir wardrobe options:

1 - BODYSUITS

It’s no secret that bodysuits are one of my favorite wardrobe pieces to shoot. They look good on EVERYONE, regardless of body type and there are so many different options out there at many different price points. Yes, there are lingerie-style bodysuits (Journelle has some of my favorites) but there are also bodysuit tops out there that are totally covered up (very on trend right now, check out Cuyana). You can even wear a one piece bathing suit! Andies makes some really beautiful ones in classic styles.

2 - TEE SHIRT or TANK TOP

I find a classic white tank so sexy. It can be worn with or without a bra underneath for 2 totally different looks and can be wet down to kick the sex appeal up a notch. I love this look bra-less or with a black bra underneath if you want the extra coverage. Black tanks and cropped tee shirts give a similar effect. You can show as much or as little tummy as you want to with these looks - great for variety. And if you have a tee with a message you love — bring it! This ^^ “Badass Feminist” shirt ^^ is one of my favorites (currently out of stock but I am stalking the website to see when more are coming in).

3 - KIMONO, SCARF or ROBE

This is another look that lets you choose how much or how little you want to show. A robe gives a cool, “I just woke up like this” vibe and you can be 100% covered up in it. Or, slip it down over your shoulder to show just a little bit of skin. I find shoulders, clavicles, collarbones and backs really beautiful. Scarves can serve the same purpose or we can play around with them to get some more energy & movement in your images — it can make a fun “peek-a-boo” moment.

4 - JACKETS

Fur, leather or even a blazer - I LOVE shooting women in jackets. It’s unexpected and modern — a real fashion moment. If you have a statement jacket you love, BRING IT!

5 - ACTIVE WEAR

So many women feel their sexiest and most powerful when they are working out. If this is the case for you, why not capture that feeling in your workout gear? With the rise of “athleisure,” active wear has become really sexy with fun cut outs, straps, and illusion panels, plus they tighten up the look of the body for a smooth line.

6 - COZY SWEATER

January felt about 75 days long to me this year, and all I wanted to do was cuddle up in a big cozy cardigan. Worn with a simple bra and panty or nothing at all underneath, it gives the vibe of an intimate evening at home. Extra bonus that you can show as much or as little as you want with this look, and use it to highlight some of your favorite, perhaps under-appreciated parts, similar to the robe look listed above (hello, collarbones).

7 - JEANS

OK, I KNOW you have a favorite pair of jeans in your closet that make you feel like you can take on the world. Skinny jeans with a bra and heels gives a powerful, New York Woman feel, and a looser boyfriend style is easy to slip on and off for a suggestive, “leave something to the imagination” vibe. High waisted jeans when worn alone give a very modern, “fashionista that isn’t trying too hard” feeling.

8 - BUTTON DOWN SHIRT

Many women like to bring one of their partner’s shirts in to the shoot — it’s a classic for a reason! Another great look is a sheer-isn button down of yours. When photographed backlit it shows just enough of your outline in silhouette and looks really artistic & graceful.

9 - TIGHTS

One of my earliest clients brought in a pair of opaque tights and I realized how genius it was! It’s totally unexpected, pretty much covered up, and also so fashion-y & sexy! Statement tights also work great to show off the legs.

10 - BLACK BRA & PANTY

Simplicity is often times the best! Whatever the texture - lace, cotton, sheer - a black bra and panty photograph and are sexy in an every day, not trying too hard kind of way.

11 - NOTHING AT ALL!

Of course, no wardrobe at all is required for your boudoir shoot! “Nude” doesn’t have to be over-exposed or sexual. In fact, often times the nude looks we photograph are the most covered up of all! You can be ENTIRELY covered in a white sheet and look incredibly sexy. It’s all about what’s left to the imagination! Or, we can shoot fine art nudes that could be hung up on your wall without anyone knowing that it’s you. Or, hell, tell EVERYONE it’s you! There is no shame loving yourself and being proud of your body.

The truth is, “sexy” is much more about how you feel that what you are wearing. Whatever you decide to wear, trust me when I say, when you feel good you will look good. So feel free to think outside the box with your boudoir wardrobe and most of all, don’t stress it!

xoxo, Stephanie

Have more questions about what to wear to your shoot? Hit me up and let’s chat!