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Let Boudoir Photography Change The Way You See Yourself

Choosing portraiture photography is a powerful step toward self-discovery, self-expression, and increased self-confidence. Professional portrait photography is an artistic and insightful medium that helps to capture your unique persona and beauty. This art form allows you to create a visual narrative of your life, express your personality, and capture memorable moments in a particular era that means a lot to you. In this blog post courtesy of Brooklyn Boudoir, we'll explore how professional boudoir portrait photography can boost your self-confidence and change your outlook.

Change the Way You See Yourself

A professional portrait session with an experienced photographer can help you see yourself in a new light. The photographer will create an environment where you feel comfortable, relaxed, and confident. They'll guide you through the process of posing and help you to find your best angles. A portrait session is an opportunity for you to explore your personality and showcase your unique beauty. By capturing the essence of who you are, you will be able to see yourself in a way that you may never have before.

Capture An Era

Portrait photography captures unique moments in a person's life. These moments can range from a special celebration to a personal achievement; sometimes, they simply mark a major life change that becomes a turning point. A professional portrait photographer will capture these moments in a way that reflects your individuality and personality. They'll create an image that tells the story you want to tell.

Banish Insecurities

Many people struggle with insecurities about their appearance or personality. A professional portrait session can help you overcome these feelings so you can create an image that is both beautiful and empowering. Whether you've recently had a child or are working on the process of self-love, the act of having your portrait taken can help you refocus your energy into a more positive form.

Unleash Your Creativity

Portrait photography is a powerful medium for personal exploration and creativity. It provides an opportunity for you to express yourself, showcase your unique personality, and experiment with different styles and themes. A professional portrait photographer will work with you to create images that reflect your personality, interests, and passions. This session provides a creative outlet for personal exploration, which can be both enjoyable and empowering.

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Take Your Images Even Further With Adobe Express

Once you have your professional portrait photos, there are a variety of ways to enjoy them and showcase your unique personality. Adobe Express is a powerful photo editing app that allows you to create beautiful projects with your favorite images. You can use these tools to create photo cards and other keepsakes using your high-quality images; here are some examples.

  • Create a beautiful anniversary card for your loved one using your favorite photo. This is a great way to incorporate your photo session into your special day. Just choose the template you like best and include the photo of your choosing.

  • Make a sweet Valentine’s Day card for your significant other using your favorite shot from the session. Not only is this a great memento, it’s easy to do. Just upload the image and use the tool to add fun or romantic text.

  • Create a beautiful photo calendar that uses a different boudoir photo for each day of the month. This makes a great gift for a special someone. Adobe’s templates make the process easy; the hardest part is deciding which photos to use!

  • You don’t need design skills to create a gorgeous desktop wallpaper. Adobe makes it super easy, and you can have a beautiful reminder of your photo shoot completed in minutes. Choose your colors and customize the wallpaper with different fonts or icons.

Professional portrait photography is a powerful medium for self-expression and personal growth. It provides an opportunity for you to explore your personality, showcase your unique beauty, and capture memorable moments in your life. By choosing a professional boudoir portrait session, you can boost your self-confidence, see yourself in a new light, overcome insecurities, explore your creativity, and enjoy your photos for years to come.

Ready to see yourself in a new light? Get in touch with the pros at Brooklyn Boudoir today to set up a session.

5 Must-Have Bodysuits for Stunning Photoshoots

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Get ready to amp up your style game and make a bold statement during your next boudoir photoshoot. I'm talking about the power of bodysuits. It’s no secret I am a huge fan of bodysuits - I recommend them to nearly every client I have. These versatile and oh-so-flattering garments are a must-have in any fashion-forward wardrobe. Today, I'm thrilled to share with you five fabulous bodysuit options that will take your shoot to the next level. From luxurious designs to comfortable classics, we've got you covered. So, let's dive right in!

Thistle and Spire: It's All About Seduction

Model Samantha Rose wears Thistle and Spire’s Cornelia Bodysuit, purchased at Sugar Cookies Lingerie

Let's start with Thistle and Spire, a brand that effortlessly combines sensuality and sophistication. When it comes to bodysuits, Thistle and Spire knows how to create pieces that make you feel like an absolute goddess. With intricate lace details, sumptuous fabrics, and flattering silhouettes, their bodysuits are a true work of art. When I slipped into one of their designs, I instantly felt a surge of confidence and empowerment. It's amazing how a single garment can transform your entire mood. Thistle and Spire bodysuits are not only visually stunning but also incredibly comfortable to wear. The attention to detail is evident in every stitch, ensuring a perfect fit that accentuates your curves in all the right places.

You'll be delighted to know that these gorgeous bodysuits are available at Sugar Cookies Lingerie. They understand the importance of offering high-quality and exquisite lingerie to their customers. By curating an impressive collection of Thistle and Spire bodysuits, they provide an opportunity for fashion enthusiasts to experience the magic of this exceptional brand.

Commando: Softness Meets Luxury

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When it comes to bodysuits, sometimes less is more, and that's where Commando excels. Their bodysuits are the epitome of comfort and elegance. When you wear a Commando bodysuit, you feel enveloped in a cocoon of softness that feels absolutely luxurious against your skin - it’s pretty much all I want to wear. The fabric they use is incredibly soft, and it feels like a second skin. It's one of those garments that you never want to take off. But what truly sets Commando bodysuits apart is the attention they give to different necklines. They offer a variety of options, from classic scoop necks to plunging V-necks, allowing you to find the perfect neckline to complement your shoot's aesthetic. This attention to detail ensures that you not only look fabulous but also feel your best during your boudoir shoot.

Skims: Shape Your Way to Perfection

The Classic Floor Pose in a classic Skims bodysuit

If you're looking for a bodysuit that doubles as shapewear, Skims has got you covered. Cofounded by the iconic Kim Kardashian, Skims bodysuits are designed to enhance your curves and accentuate your best features. The moment you put on a Skims bodysuit, you instantly feel a boost of confidence as it hugs and contours your body in all the right places. The secret lies in the thoughtfully designed shaping technology that smoothens and sculpts, giving you a flawless silhouette.

But what's even more impressive about Skims is their commitment to inclusivity. They offer a wide range of sizes and shades to cater to all body types and skin tones. It's truly empowering to see a brand that celebrates diversity and ensures that every individual feels represented and beautiful. Skims bodysuits not only provide shaping and support but also act as a stylish foundation for your entire outfit.

Wolford: Luxe All the Way

Prepare yourself for the epitome of luxury with Wolford bodysuits. This prestigious brand knows how to create bodysuits that exude sophistication and style. The moment I laid eyes on a Wolford bodysuit, I was captivated by the exquisite craftsmanship and attention to detail. The lines on their designs are impeccable, creating a visually striking silhouette that enhances your natural curves. It's the kind of bodysuit that makes you feel like a true fashion icon.

And here's the exciting part: Wolford bodysuits are currently on sale at Sugar Cookies! Yes, you read that right. Now is the perfect time to indulge in the luxurious world of Wolford and own a piece from this renowned brand. Trust me, when you slip into one of these luxurious creations, you'll feel like you're walking the runway of your own shoot, radiating confidence and style.

Maison Close: Temptation at Its Finest

Last but certainly not least, let's talk about Maison Close. This brand invites you to explore the captivating realm of temptation with their thong bodysuits. Maison Close embraces delicate fabrics, intricate designs, and an alluring aesthetic that embodies seduction and confidence. Maison Close understands that true beauty lies in the details. Their designs feature intricate lacework, strategic cutouts, and tantalizing silhouettes that leave a lasting impression. The craftsmanship and attention to detail are simply exceptional.

To explore the captivating world of Maison Close and find the perfect thong bodysuit that resonates with your unique style, head over to Sugar Cookies Lingerie website.

Bonus: Go for the Unexpected with a One-Piece Bathing Suit

If you're feeling adventurous and want to add a unique twist to your shoot, why not consider a one-piece bathing suit? These beauties can be surprisingly versatile, allowing you to experiment with different textures, patterns, and silhouettes. Whether you choose a vibrant tropical print, a sleek and sophisticated black design, or a retro-inspired polka dot number, a one-piece bathing suit will definitely make a statement. Pair it with a flowy cover-up, a wide-brimmed hat, and some statement accessories, and you'll have a jaw-dropping ensemble that showcases your confidence and individuality. Don't be afraid to break the mold and embrace the unexpected. Your one-piece bathing suit might just steal the show and make your shoot a true masterpiece.

In conclusion, choosing the right bodysuit for your photoshoot is crucial to create stunning and impactful images. Whether you opt for the seductive elegance of Thistle and Spire, the luxurious comfort of Commando, the shaping power of Skims, the timeless beauty of Wolford, or the tempting allure of Maison Close, these bodysuit options will undoubtedly make you shine like a star. So, go ahead and rock that shoot with confidence, and let your bodysuit be the ultimate expression of your personal style. Happy posing!

Wardrobe Ideas for your Boudoir Shoot: The White Shirt

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Boudoir outfit inspiration

Your upcoming photoshoot is a big deal, so naturally the outfits you choose are important to plan carefully. After you book with me, I will send you a very comprehensive prep guide to help plan your looks. But in the meantime, I am starting this series of ideas for you to wearing during your boudoir session. Starting with …

The White Button Down Shirt

Ahh, the white shirt. Classic, classy, sexy, and already in your closet! There are so many ways to style a white shirt, and it’s always in style. Plus it looks good on EVERYONE, so naturally it’s one of my favorite pieces to photograph.

What style of white shirt should you choose?

I always recommend you choose a white button down without patterns, logos or details that could date the photo or be distracting. I personally love a shirt that it’s a little large (not too huge on you) and more summer weight - in other words, not too thick. A little sheerness is oh so sexy and a lighter material will move well when you do. I have a version of this kind of shirt in the studio if you don’t have one that you love.

Should I wear by partner’s shirt?

It’s always so fun to sneak your partner’s shirt out of the closet - so many of my clients do this and it always gives their partner a fun surprise. I would just call out that you don’t want the shirt to be TOO big on you-we still want to see you underneath it!

How should you wear a white shirt in your boudoir photoshoot?

There are SO MANY ways to wear the classic white shirt:

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  • Wear it over lingerie, choosing how many buttons are closed to tailor the level of “edge” to your comfort zone.

  • Wear it completely undone, draped off the shoulder. My clients always love a “taking the shirt off” pose. Bonus if the shirt is a little sheer so we can get a peek of your silhouette underneath.

  • Wear it totally buttoned up with no pants

  • Wear it frumpy and wrinkled for a “just woke up like this” flavor

  • Hike it up to catch a glimpse of booty.

  • Styled with “his” accessories for a masculine-sexy feel

  • Tied up to show a little extra abs and give a ore fashion-forward feel.

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Remember, you can be as revealing as you want to be during your boudoir shoot - from totally NSFW to completely covered up - and a crisp white button down gives you the flexibility to do just that. It also gives us tons of options for posing, gives you something productive to do with your hands, and is a classy, classy look that will never go out of style.

Need more Boudoir wardrobe inspiration? Keep checking out my blog posts for more!

xoxo,

Stephanie






Dear Big Booty | A Love Letter to My Most Prominent Feature | Brooklyn Boudoir Photographer

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Dear Big Booty:  

In contrast to my breasts, which took their time to arrive (and did so with little fanfare), you showed up front - or should I say, *back* & center - early in the sixth grade, along with your sidekicks, wide hips and cellulite.  You sabotaged my aspirations of becoming a ballet dancer, and filled me with body image dysmorphia and self-doubt.  You had outgrown most clothes and the kids at school would tease that they could see you “hanging out” of my skirts despite my best efforts to cover up. Even my mom affectionately called you "BB" for "big butt" as a teenager.  (Et tu Brute, MOM?! )

While you're fun to shake on the dance floor, we both know life isn't always a Nikki Minaj video.  The low cut jeans of the early 2000s bordered on the obscene for me, offering a bulls-eye view of my undies (and more) when seated. In middle school I quite literally wore my mother's jeans, and my favorite accessory was a flannel shirt tired around my waist to block you from view (note from the current me: It was the 90s, so this look was somewhat acceptable at the time, and while I’d love to take credit for the mom jean trend, truth be told I wasn’t that cool or forward thinking.) By the time I was 15 I was on the receiving end of cat calls nearly every day. It was before the “Me Too” movement and I am ashamed to say I believed the unwanted attention you brought was inevitable because of my shape, and I accepted it as “just one of those things.”

When I got my first job, I realized I had to be careful not to look unintentially sexy at work.  Pencil skirts were a staple for co-workers, but boy did they push the boundaries of decency whenever they graced my rear.  There was even one summer when I was so fed up with the unwanted attention that I cloaked you in peasant dresses. But then... peasant dresses.  

I wish I could say I came to terms with you on my own, but it took 90s heroin chic ending and figure-hugging Versace dresses coming into fashion for me to accept my own apple bottom jeans. Somewhere between J. Lo and Beyonce, I started to realize that -- hold up -- a round butt was perhaps a GOOD thing. Or at the very least not something to regret. My college dance troupe celebrated my curves and we worked my shape into our choreography. Eventually those booty-shaking moves became my trademark and I got the courage to stop hiding you altogether.  It was truly life-changing to FINALLY accept my body as it was. Flat chest + little waist + big booty = ME (and I could work it).

As I grew my boudoir business, I took many self portraits to beef up my portfolio, and to this day, my favorite shots are those of my derrière. Do I still have cellulite?   Yes.  Do I wish I were one of the 10% of women out there who don't have cellulite? Sure I do.  But I've learned how to pose and use light to flatter my curves & make them look beautiful in photographs.

Now that I'm getting older, my bottom - while still strongly resembling a lower case "b" - is slightly less rotund, and frankly, I miss it!   And perhaps the most shocking revelation of all as I near the big 4-0: a bit of cellulite is fine!  We are women, a lot of us have it, and it doesn't take away from our beauty or power one bit, so long as you don’t let it. Your beauty isn’t tied to a few dimples here and there, the same way it isn’t tied to the number on the scale, or the numbers on your birth certificate (says the woman whose birthday is in six weeks!).

And so, Big Booty, while I don't need to accentuate you (you need no help from me there), I no longer want to minimize you either.  I embrace silhouettes that emphasize my waist (hello A-line skits and high waisted pants) and found a tailor who helps show off my assists while still leaving plenty of room to sit down.  You are a part of me, and I dare say that sometimes I even like some of the attention you bring my way.  It took me years, but my dewdrop shape finally has the love it deserves, and my overall self is so much better for that loving acceptance.

xoxo, Stephanie

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