5 Fun Boudoir Photography Poses My Clients Love | Brooklyn Boudoir Studio

As a boudoir photographer, I have worked with countless women of all ages and body types. One of the things that never ceases to amaze me is how empowering boudoir photography can be. It's a way to celebrate your body and your femininity, to feel confident and beautiful, and to capture that feeling forever in photographs. One of the questions I get asked most frequently is about poses - what are the most flattering, what are the most popular, and what are the most fun? So, today I'm going to share with you five fun boudoir photography poses that my clients love.

The Floor Pose

Our floors at Brooklyn Boudoir are kind of famous. In fact, along with the floor to ceiling windows they were what drew me to the studio in the first place. It’s no wonder that the "Floor Pose" is my #1 most request pose from my clients. It’s versatile and one of the most universally flattering boudoir photography poses. And while it isn’t comfortable to be laying on a hard, cold, polished-concrete floor, there is a LOT of variety we can get get here, resulting in about 10 unique shots. All of these reasons add up to the floor pose being an absolute must-try pose for any client looking for edgy and captivating shots that highlight their curves and beauty.

One of the reasons why this pose is so popular is the sheer number of angles you can capture. Everyone looks good stretched out on the floor, and there are tons of angles you can capture - from the front, side, back, and even from above. Moreover, the reflective nature of the concrete floors creates a unique and edgy look that's sure to turn heads.

Even if you have movement limitations, this pose is still doable. You can bend one of your legs, stretch out, or lie on your side to create different looks and angles. It's a versatile pose that works well for all body types.

However, I must warn you that this pose can be uncomfortable, especially if you're lying directly on the hard, cold floor. But, trust me, it's worth it! The results are always stunning, and the discomfort is temporary. Plus, as a photographer, I will do everything in my power to make you feel as comfortable as possible during the shoot.

Sitting Cross-legged

The "CrissCross Applesauce" pose is a perfect choice for those clients who are looking for a pose that's both comfortable and easy to execute. Many clients feel nervous when they're asked to pose in their lingerie, but this pose can help ease those nerves. It's a familiar position that we sit in every day, which can make the client feel more at ease during the shoot.

It's natural to feel self-conscious during a boudoir photoshoot, but it's important to remember that the camera sees things differently than we do. This pose can show as much or as little as you want it to. As a photographer, I have a trained eye to capture the best angles and lighting, which can enhance your beauty and make you look your best. So, even if you're feeling a bit nervous or self-conscious, trust me when I say that you look amazing.

Laying on Your Tummy

Laying on your tummy is an excellent pose to start with if you're feeling a bit hesitant or self-conscious. It can be a bit more comfortable since you're not as exposed, making it a perfect way to ease into the session. However, don't let the less revealing nature of this pose fool you - it's still incredibly versatile and can capture a wide range of moods. From a sultry, come-hither expression to a playful, flirty smile, laying on your tummy can showcase your personality while still maintaining your comfort level.

What's more, this pose is an excellent opportunity to play with your hair, whether you choose to let it cascade down your back or pull it up in a messy bun. As a boudoir photographer, I love capturing shots where my clients interact with their hair, adding a playful or seductive touch to the final images.

Arms Above the Head

This pose offers versatility in terms of style. You can make it look more pinup-like or more natural, depending on how you position yourself. If you touch your hair, it can create a natural look. And if you raise your arms up it will lift your breasts, which works well for both larger and smaller busts.

Additionally, there are plenty of ways to vary the composition of the shot by focusing on different parts of your body. For example, you can frame your eyes with your arms, emphasize the curve of your waist, showcase your curves by positioning your body to highlight your booty and side body, or play with your hair and back. You can also incorporate your hands into the pose to add a graceful element to the shot.

Legs Up on the Bed

Although this pose may not be the easiest to get into, once you're in it, it's a breeze. It may take some time to find the perfect angle, but it's totally worth it. One of the best things about this pose is that it can highlight your legs or statement shoes, which is perfect for those who love to show off their footwear collection. It elongates your legs, which can make them appear slimmer and longer, creating a stunning look that will leave you feeling confident.

Apart from the legs, this pose can also capture artistic, anonymous shots that still show off your body head to toe. It allows you to play with angles, creating a unique and captivating composition.

In conclusion, these are just five of the many boudoir photography poses that my clients love. The key to a great boudoir session is to trust your photographer and to have fun - after all, this is a celebration of you and your body. So don't be afraid to try new things and to embrace your femininity. And if you're still feeling a little nervous, just remember - what the camera sees is totally different than what you are seeing. You are beautiful, and you deserve to feel confident and empowered.

Top 10 Reasons to Book a Boudoir Shoot and Embrace Your Sensuality

As a professional boudoir photographer, I have had the privilege of capturing intimate and sensual moments for my clients. Many women come to me for boudoir photography for various reasons, and each one is unique. In this blog post, I'll share with you the top 10 reasons to book a boudoir shoot, and why it can be a transformative experience for anyone.

1 - To Celebrate Yourself

As women, we tend to focus on our flaws rather than our strengths. We are often our own worst critics, and it can be challenging to feel confident in our skin. A boudoir shoot is an opportunity to celebrate your body and your beauty. It's a chance to see yourself in a new light and embrace your femininity. Whether you're curvy, petite, tall, or short, boudoir photography is an inclusive art form that can capture the beauty of every woman.

2 - Boost Your Confidence

A boudoir shoot can be an empowering experience that helps you feel more confident and self-assured. Seeing yourself in a new light and being proud of your body can be incredibly empowering and help you feel more confident in your day-to-day life. During a boudoir session, you'll be treated like a superstar and get to be the center of attention. Professional photographers are experts in capturing your best angles and lighting, and you'll leave the session feeling more self-assured.

3 - To Create a Timeless Keepsake

A boudoir shoot is a way to create a timeless keepsake that you can cherish forever. You'll have beautiful images that capture your beauty and femininity, and you can look back on them for years to come. Boudoir photography is not just about taking photos; it's about creating art that captures the essence of who you are. You can display your images in your home, or keep them in a private collection for yourself or your partner.

4 - To Mark a Milestone

Many women book boudoir shoots to mark a milestone in their lives, such as a wedding, a pregnancy, or a significant birthday. It's a way to celebrate the moment and create lasting memories. A boudoir session can be a unique way to commemorate your achievements and make a meaningful moment that you'll never forget.

5 - To Gift to Your Partner

I always say that gifting is the icing on the cake - it’s about more than just a gift to a loved one, but that said, a boudoir shoot can make for an incredibly romantic and intimate gift for your partner. It's a chance to show your love and appreciation by giving them a unique and personal gift that they'll treasure forever. The beauty of boudoir photography lies not only in the sensual photos but also in the capture of your personality, style, and confidence in a way that your partner will adore.

6 - To Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

Booking a boudoir shoot can be a way to step out of your comfort zone and try something new. It can be a little intimidating, but it's also an opportunity to push your boundaries and do something that scares you a little. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be a transformative experience that helps you grow as a person and become more self-confident.

7 - To Embrace Your Sensuality

Boudoir photography provides an opportunity for women to embrace their femininity and sexuality, and to feel more confident in themselves. It's a form of art that captures the beauty of the human body in a way that is both sensual and artistic and empowers women to celebrate their unique beauty and individuality.

8 - To Enjoy a Unique and Exciting Experience

A boudoir shoot is a one-of-a-kind experience that can be both exhilarating and enjoyable. From choosing your wardrobe to getting your hair and makeup done, every aspect of the shoot is designed to make you feel pampered and special. You get to be the center of attention and have a fun and exciting photoshoot where you can express yourself and feel empowered. Whether you're looking for a way to inject some excitement into your life or create a memorable experience, a boudoir shoot is a perfect opportunity to do so.

9 - To Create a Bond with Your Photographer

Boudoir photography is a very personal and intimate experience, so it's important to find a boudoir photographer who you feel comfortable with. When you book a boudoir shoot, you'll have the opportunity to get to know your photographer and build a rapport with them. This can lead to a deeper level of trust and comfort, which can result in even better photos.

10 - To Rediscover Yourself

Finally, a boudoir shoot can be a way to rediscover yourself and see yourself in a new light. It's an opportunity to shed your inhibitions and embrace your beauty, femininity, and sensuality. During a boudoir session, you'll see yourself in a way that you may never have before, and this can be a transformative experience. You'll leave the shoot feeling more confident and empowered, with a newfound appreciation for your body and yourself.

In conclusion, a boudoir shoot is a transformative experience that can benefit anyone, regardless of age, size, or shape. It's an opportunity to celebrate yourself, boost your confidence, and step out of your comfort zone, all while creating a stunning work of art.

By booking a boudoir shoot, you can explore and embrace your sensuality, capture a milestone moment, create a unique and personal gift for your partner, and so much more. It's a chance to break free from societal norms and embrace your individuality in a way that is both empowering and liberating.

So if you're looking for a way to feel more confident, celebrate your beauty, or create a meaningful memory, consider booking a boudoir shoot. It's a decision you won't regret, as the experience and photos will serve as a reminder of your beauty, confidence, and strength for years to come.

Curious about booking your own boudoir shoot? Contact me to start the conversation!

Five More Minutes | Thoughts on Motherhood | Brooklyn Boudoir Photographer

I have a new alarm clock.  It’s a 2 year who wakes up at 6:35am on the dot every day without fail saying, “Mama come in… come in Mama…please Mama, come IN” at regular intervals, gaining volume for 30 minutes straight until I come to terms with the fact that there is no such thing as a snooze button anymore. (my husband is somehow blissfully and annoyingly unaware of this new alarm clock). 

And so the day begins, hoping I remembered to set the coffee machine to start the night before, getting the babe changed, fed, dressed, and out the door in time, trying to put my own self together without her getting at my makeup, answering my husbands 10 million questions about the day (including what the weather will be, as if he has no other way of finding out...) and suddenly it’s 9a and I am (already!) worn out.  There’s nothing like running around town with a top knot (and not the fashion-week kind) and a purse filled with raisins to help us forget that we are intelligent, indepndant and desirable women with layers, personality, and a life outside of school drop off.

For years I’ve been an avid reader of Brooklyn Blogger Joanna Goddard, who recently joked about motherhood on her blog: “Everyone here wants to touch my boobs for different reasons, but kind of the same reason.”  This rang SO TRUE for me.  I think about it all the time and share it with all of my other mom friends, to which everyone busts out laughing, then turns inwards and nods quietly to themselves. 

Being the center of everyone’s universe is a double-edged sword: on one hand it's so sweet & flattering, truly the greatest blessing, AND ALSO it's the most taxing, stressful, and exhausting experience. If you hope to survive it, not to mention find joy in it, then you need to care for yourself.
 

After drop off, a full day of work, deadlines that never end, pick up, dinner, baths, story times, and then back to the computer for more work that I could not finish in my work day, I am often too tired to do anything for me, other than put on my pj’s and go to sleep, knowing that tomorrow will be a similar grind. I found myself taking absurdly long showers just to get “5 more minutes” (my daughter’s current favorite negotiating phrase) to myself.  And then I realzied — this is crazy!  I shouldn’t have to hide in the bathroom to allow myself some ME time!  And I resolved to start making more time on the regular to look after MYSELF with the same care I look after my daughter & husband.

We moms share so much in common. Yes, you are a caregiver but you are also fierce, you are proud, you are resilient.  You’ve brought life into this world and most likely struggled to do so (even with the stongest epidural) and there is NOTHING more amazing than that. We love and care for our children, sacrifice our time, energy and money for our families, and too often put ourselves last — especially when prioritizing personal wants, needs, and desires.  There’s only so much we have to give and we shouldn’t forget to give to ourselves.

It’s not like I’m disappearing for hours on end, or partying into the night. Sometimes it’s as simple as taking a walk around the block by myself to listen to a podcast, an afternoon having a glass of wine with a friend I never get to see anymore (because she is probably also a mom in the same boat) or shutting myself in the bedroom to reading a book (read: trashy magazine) for an hour.  

It doesn’t always come easy.  I still worry if my daughter will feel abandoned, or end up at school with 2 different shoes on her feet because I tasked my husband to get her dressed in the morning.  But the truth is, EVERYONE in our house is better off when I feel like myself, as opposed to a strung-out, harried juggler.  Even a small amount of time helps revitalize and enrgize me.   I find myself appreciating my daughter and husband more, smiling more, being more productive at work, feeling more satisfied with life in general and even wanting to have sex to more!

Well ladies, I encourage you — hell, I CHALLENGE you — to resolve to honor yourself: that beautiful, seductive, alluring, phenomenal woman you know you are.  There are big ways and small ways to do this.  I’ll tell you, one fantastic way to do this is by treating yourself to a boudoir session. Boudoir is a classy, elegant way to show off your sexier side and celebrate the beauty of YOU!

At Brooklyn Boudoir I love taking beautiful portraits of women.  But that’s only part of it.  The other, equally important thing that I give my clients is a few hours that’s just for them.  You get to feel beuatiful, have a glass of wine and enjoy the feelings of freedom and womanhood.  You get pampered.  You'll walk away with a pep in your step that maybe you haven’t felt for awhile.  Fast forward 2 weeks to your reveal when you get to see your photos for the first time… I have had women cry seeing them because they can’t beleive the woman in the photos is them.  Because the photos show them that they ARE still beautiful, and yes, also sexy.  That they ARE a sensual person, a feminine powerhouse, AND ALSO a boss/wife/mom.  YOU CAN BE ALL THOSE THINGS!  For the first time in maybe a long time they see themseves the way they used to and begin to feel that *spark* again.  They are energized and proud, and after we hug goodbye, I see my clients walk away with a new twinkle in their eye.  

And THEN, on top of it all, you get to hold on to those images in an album or a piece of wall art to remind you of who you are when you need it. Trust me: there isn’t anything like seeing a portrait of yourself looking and feeling your very best to inspire even the most tired women. 

Ladies — it’s still in there.  When you take care of yoruself, you start to remember who you really are at your core, and you can be a better caretaker for others.  You’ll be more present with your kids, feel warmer towards your partner, smile more to the other parents and pickup.  And when you FEEL good, you really do look your best.  

So Happy Mother’s Day to all the hard working, strong, badass mothers out there.  You are doing great.  And you deserve to be pampered, not just on mother’s day, but every day.  

xoxo, Stephanie

Ready to pamper yourself a bit?  Contact me and let's schedule your boudoir session!

Photo Credits: Keturah Davis Photography